What is something deep you want to write here?

I have an unbreaking bond with sexual assault in my life an I'm living these scars for years.

But this is not what I want anyone to know. I have something else to share.

Few days ago,

I got a text from a girl on Quora asking if she can share something with me. I nodded yes but then she didn't say anything.

Two days later, she shared an incident of rape that happened to her friend and asked me to help her friend as she is lost in her life.

Giving some raw peices of advice do not work without knowing a person better. So, I told the girl to ask her friend to talk to me.

She hesitantly confessed, that girl was not her friend but only her. She was scared of being judged.

She, a teenager girl, came from an orthodox family. For competitive exam preparation, she went to an another city and the rape incident happened there.

There was only one friend of her in that city and she shared this incident to her but she took it lightly and said, it happens. Her friend statement screwd up her more. Atlast, she left the city for home, unable to cope mental traumas.

Her family doesn't know the actual reason, why she came back to home. If she tells them the actual reason, they will discontinue her studies and her education career will be ruined.

Now,

Coming back to question.

What is something deep I want to write here?

In above aforementioned story, the girl has no one in her life with whom she can feel comfortable. That incident is not much messing her but the people around her. She has lost trust in her parents and friends both.

I'm here emphasizing that people are around us but they are not with us.

Parents have created a phobia in their kids. They have set up number of boundaries as per respective societies which their kids shouldn't break.

These boundary are what actually breaking the relation between parents and a kid. It is becoming a burden and which is suffocating to live.

Our parents are first persons for whom kids want to look for any kind of help. But their orthodox and narrow nature scare kids to open themselves.

They are unable to share themselves with them. Infact, how would they, when they see you pathetic treating behaviour with others?

It shuts their expectations. They find themselves an orphan, even though after having parents.

I get tonnes of messages regarding depression, mental traumas and career. The root cause lies in within parents and friends.

There is lack of trust and understanding between parents and children. Parents’s judging and dominant behaviour are causing children to thrive into loneliness and depression. Friends are already sitting on the edge of cheating and backstabbing.

A kid is lost alone, wrapped in a sheet of insecurities and depression.

Be friendly and trustworthy to your people. This single alone thing can solve too many problems.

Aura:)