How do we make life hard?

I believe life in itself is not hard but I can say that it is perceived to be so ….life is an amalgamation of different covalences but of the same properties..with every covalence feeling that it has a right to manifest life aspect in its perceived difference..mark you !this is just for differential purpose ,not for competition .

Once one considers it as the later ,we are arrested by life itself and thrown in the wonder prison cell and from current state of affairs ,unless you make mends with life itself ,you may never live life yourself in its effacy vibrant aspect but just as part of the package ..completely devoided of any actual and factual imput ( not that all is done for one experiencing such phenomenas*matter of fact I suppose life tries to make the previous point here* ,life is inviting you to see its other aspect ,,,so I suppose).

Won’t it be just easier for one to affirm of life's diversity instead of emacing themselves in a virtual competition…so I assume to myself..regards