Why is everyone around me good at something, and I'm not?

Besides being kind to yourself, you are good at something. For one thing, there's no one quite like you. If you try to compare yourself to someone or something you're going to feel inadequate, every time.

In this day and age, people, TV and Internet advertising are trying to make you feel inadequate so they can convince you to buy their product or their image that they have carefully built up. They have built up the image, not you. Had you carefully built the image, then you could compare yourself. Comparing yourself to others makes you feel that you're not good at something.

Some people try to say that everything you do is bad and they're the only ones who can fix your problem. Again, they're trying to sell you on their image so they have control. Actually, you're the one who's in control of yourself. REALLY.

Now, go find out what skills you enjoy doing, that you're successful doing, that you can get better doing if you put in the work, and get happy doing it. That way, you're the boss of you.