Wherever I go to work, they find me genuinely nice and friendly. My memory is poor, though, and I’m intimidated by customers. I have no college degree, or good skills. I can’t go to school because I get fatigue. I’m 40. What can I possibly do?

Being found genuinely nice and friendly is a talent or ability that many people would love to have.

Get a thorough physical with scans and blood tests to make sure your fatigue isn’t from an underlying medical problem.

if there isn’t an underlying issue, look into an exercise program to build up your stamina.

As for college and college degrees, don’t worry about it. Plenty of people never went to college or didn’t graduate. They still went on to careers they enjoy.

As for memory, there are books that teach methods to remember things (Memory Book is the one I remember). And there are ways to work around it. And, there is a good chance that your memory is better than you think.

Go build a life you enjoy.