How skilled do you have to be to hack a phone? I have an iPhone, what steps can I take to make sure I’m not hacked?

E̲n̲g̲a̲g̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲i̲n̲ ̲a̲c̲t̲i̲o̲n̲s̲ ̲t̲h̲a̲t̲ ̲v̲i̲o̲l̲a̲t̲e̲ ̲t̲r̲u̲s̲t̲ ̲c̲a̲n̲ ̲l̲e̲a̲d̲ ̲t̲o̲ ̲a̲ ̲g̲r̲a̲d̲u̲a̲l̲ ̲e̲r̲o̲s̲i̲o̲n̲ ̲o̲f̲ ̲t̲h̲a̲t̲ ̲t̲r̲u̲s̲t̲,̲ ̲b̲a̲s̲e̲d̲ ̲o̲n̲ ̲m̲y̲ ̲o̲w̲n̲ ̲l̲i̲f̲e̲ ̲e̲x̲p̲e̲r̲i̲e̲n̲c̲e̲s̲.̲ ̲I̲ ̲a̲m̲ ̲c̲u̲r̲r̲e̲n̲t̲l̲y̲ ̲f̲a̲c̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲c̲h̲a̲l̲l̲e̲n̲g̲e̲s̲ ̲i̲n̲ ̲m̲y̲ ̲m̲a̲r̲r̲i̲a̲g̲e̲ ̲b̲e̲c̲a̲u̲s̲e̲ ̲I̲ ̲m̲a̲d̲e̲ ̲t̲h̲e̲ ̲c̲h̲o̲i̲c̲e̲ ̲t̲o̲ ̲i̲n̲f̲r̲i̲n̲g̲e̲ ̲u̲p̲o̲n̲ ̲m̲y̲ ̲h̲u̲s̲b̲a̲n̲d̲'̲s̲ ̲p̲r̲i̲v̲a̲c̲y̲ ̲b̲y̲ ̲m̲o̲n̲i̲t̲o̲r̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲h̲i̲s̲ ̲p̲h̲o̲n̲e̲.̲ ̲H̲o̲w̲e̲v̲e̲r̲,̲ ̲i̲f̲ ̲y̲o̲u̲ ̲g̲e̲n̲u̲i̲n̲e̲l̲y̲ ̲b̲e̲l̲i̲e̲v̲e̲ ̲i̲t̲'̲s̲ ̲n̲e̲c̲e̲s̲s̲a̲r̲y̲,̲ ̲i̲t̲ ̲i̲s̲ ̲v̲i̲t̲a̲l̲ ̲t̲o̲ ̲p̲r̲o̲c̲e̲e̲d̲ ̲d̲i̲s̲c̲r̲e̲e̲t̲l̲y̲ ̲w̲i̲t̲h̲o̲u̲t̲ ̲h̲i̲m̲ ̲e̲v̲e̲r̲ ̲d̲e̲t̲e̲c̲t̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲y̲o̲u̲r̲ ̲a̲c̲t̲i̲o̲n̲s̲.̲ ̲I̲f̲ ̲h̲e̲ ̲w̲e̲r̲e̲ ̲t̲o̲ ̲u̲n̲c̲o̲v̲e̲r̲ ̲w̲h̲a̲t̲ ̲y̲o̲u̲'̲v̲e̲ ̲d̲o̲n̲e̲,̲ ̲t̲h̲e̲ ̲t̲r̲u̲s̲t̲ ̲h̲e̲ ̲o̲n̲c̲e̲ ̲h̲a̲d̲ ̲i̲n̲ ̲y̲o̲u̲ ̲w̲o̲u̲l̲d̲ ̲b̲e̲ ̲i̲r̲r̲e̲p̲a̲r̲a̲b̲l̲y̲ ̲d̲a̲m̲a̲g̲e̲d̲.̲ ̲I̲f̲ ̲y̲o̲u̲ ̲s̲t̲i̲l̲l̲ ̲f̲i̲n̲d̲ ̲i̲t̲ ̲n̲e̲c̲e̲s̲s̲a̲r̲y̲ ̲t̲o̲ ̲p̲u̲r̲s̲u̲e̲ ̲t̲h̲i̲s̲ ̲p̲a̲t̲h̲,̲ ̲y̲o̲u̲ ̲h̲a̲v̲e̲ ̲t̲h̲e̲ ̲o̲p̲t̲i̲o̲n̲ ̲t̲o̲ ̲s̲e̲e̲k̲ ̲h̲e̲l̲p̲ ̲f̲r̲o̲m̲ ̲S̲p̲y̲p̲h̲o̲n̲i̲a̲ ̲S̲o̲l̲u̲t̲i̲o̲n̲s̲.̲ ̲T̲h̲i̲s̲ ̲e̲x̲p̲e̲r̲t̲ ̲a̲s̲s̲i̲s̲t̲e̲d̲ ̲m̲e̲ ̲i̲n̲ ̲u̲n̲c̲o̲v̲e̲r̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲v̲a̲r̲i̲o̲u̲s̲ ̲i̲n̲s̲i̲g̲h̲t̲s̲ ̲a̲b̲o̲u̲t̲ ̲m̲y̲ ̲h̲u̲s̲b̲a̲n̲d̲ ̲b̲y̲ ̲p̲l̲a̲c̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲a̲ ̲m̲o̲n̲i̲t̲o̲r̲i̲n̲g̲ ̲d̲e̲v̲i̲c̲e̲ ̲o̲n̲ ̲h̲i̲s̲ ̲p̲h̲o̲n̲e̲.̲

G̲E̲T̲ ̲A̲ ̲F̲R̲E̲E̲ ̲C̲O̲N̲S̲U̲L̲T̲A̲T̲I̲O̲N̲ ̲W̲I̲T̲H̲ ̲S̲P̲Y̲P̲H̲O̲N̲I̲A̲ ̲S̲O̲L̲U̲T̲I̲O̲N̲S̲ ̲E̲X̲P̲E̲R̲T̲ ̲V̲I̲A̲ ̲A̲N̲Y̲ ̲O̲F̲ ̲T̲H̲E̲ ̲F̲O̲L̲L̲O̲W̲I̲N̲G̲ ̲C̲H̲A̲N̲N̲E̲L̲S̲:̲

E̲m̲a̲i̲l̲:̲ ̲S̲P̲Y̲P̲H̲O̲N̲I̲A̲(̲@̲G̲M̲A̲I̲L̲D̲O̲T̲C̲O̲M̲)̲

T̲e̲x̲t̲/̲T̲e̲l̲e̲g̲r̲a̲m̲:̲ ̲+̲1̲ ̲7̲5̲7̲ ̲6̲7̲8̲-̲8̲0̲3̲6̲

W̲e̲b̲s̲i̲t̲e̲:̲ ̲S̲O̲P̲H̲I̲A̲H̲E̲L̲P̲.̲ ̲C̲O̲M̲