If you were put in a position where you have to force yourself to help whoever to make their life easier when staying with them makes yours difficult, what would you do?

Sometimes we’re put into these situations because we need to learn how to prioritize our own well-being. It is wonderful and important to help other people, but if helping someone else is hurting you it’s not worth it. If you look at it from an outside perspective- totally objectively- think about it like this. 2 people. 1 needs help so the other helps but that then creates a problem for the helper who then needs help themselves. One person isn’t more important than the other. So why would you make that kind of sacrifice? It’s not worth it. Pull yourself up and remind yourself of your value. It’s time to move on.