Is it really matter what the people think about you?

Rajat had a huge friend circle in school.

From birthday stories to farewell party, their bond seemed like something unbreakable.

After completing their school, they all were growing apart while being busy in their careers.

Rajat was still figuring out what it feels to be a young adult and how to choose a good career.

He felt that he was being left behind and there was no stability in his life. This realisation pushed him towards depression.

Although he had many friends, but no one was with him during that phase.

Somehow he handled his mental state in that situation.

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We can see that the friends he had, were only for external boasting. No one supported him in times of trouble.

Now just do one thing.

Ask that neighbour to provide you “Ration” (food).

Ask that relative to give you “Medical Help” while being sick.

Ask that friend to pay your electricity bill, phone recharge, refill petrol/diesel etc.

Ask all those people who give their opinions to help you financially. You know what they will do?

They will surely back off.

When such people cannot support you mentally or emotionally, then financial support is a far cry.

Think once and see that these people are not holding any kind of value in your life, so why do you think about what people will say.

But no, still we continue to think that -

“Chaar Log Kya kahenge.”

Listen to those four people only when they help you in your growth and not when they bring you down.

Good people and kind souls do exist but everyone in this world isn't your well wisher. Stop expecting anything from them and never bound yourselves to this line “What will they say”.

Hope it helps! ✨️